How Do You Know When You Have Found The One

Are you married? In a relationship? I often have people ask if my hubby and I are married, and the looks I get when I tell them no are so judgmental!! Yes we have 4 children and no we are not married on paper, but when you have a love like this no wedding is needed. Don’t get me wrong marriage is a beautiful thing, and I have personally attended some beautiful wedding, but it’s just not our thing. We never saw the point to making a big deal about sharing our love with a great big celebration.
On May 27th 2017 we celebrated being together for an entire Decade!! So why is it a big deal that we are not married? I will never understand it myself, but it doesn’t matter because our love is strong and  grows stronger with each day we get to spend together. 
Love is one of those things that you can never really completely figure out. Everyone wants to what love is, or how to know when you have found the one. In my eyes there is no way to know until you take a chance and dive in. Let life happen and don’t be afraid of every fork in the road. I never imagined that our relationship would blossom into what it has, but it did, and I am so glad I took a chance.

I have so many people tell me how lucky I am to have a man in my life, who is there like Ethan. I usually just say thank you, but in my head I am doing a major victory dance because I know I found the one, and I know he is amazing!!! Words could never express my love and appreciation for a man that would do anything for not only us, but for all those he loves
I even get a daily reminder of how much he loves me usually in a morning text or call, before his work day starts. When he has a bad day he will call me just to hear my voice. These are just a couple things that  remind me that my hubby is amazing, and make me appreciate the love he gives me. 
There is no better feeling in the world than love. Not only from your spouse, but from family and close friends. Don’t ever forget to remind those you love, that you love them. Make a call, send a text, drop by to see them, or tag them on social media. No matter how you do it that simple 3 letter phrase can change a persons mood or day. 
All I have to say is I hope at one point or another everyone gets to experience a love like ours.

3 thoughts on “How Do You Know When You Have Found The One”

  1. Beautiful post! I totally understand and it's always about what works for you and your family! You should never let anyone pressure you into doing anything that doesn't feel natural. I'm married and I love it, but again, it's not for everyone! The most important thing is finding your soulmate and having that unconditional love.


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